Two new gay bars set to open in Victoria Feb 10
GAY SPACE / It's time gay men had a space of their own again: Penny
Nathaniel Christopher / Vancouver / Tuesday, February 09, 2010
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GEARED TO THE GAY MAN. 'I really believe it's a time where men have their own space to have male dancers and things that relate to men,' says Gary Penny who's opening a new gay bar, the Copper Club, in Victoria Feb 10.
(Andrea Kucherawy photo)
Victoria bartender Terry Jacques and gay rights pioneer Gary Penny will each open a gay bar in Victoria Feb 10.

Penny says his new bar, the Copper Club, located in Paul’s Motor Inn, targets a male clientele.

“I really believe it’s a time where men have their own space to have male dancers and things that relate to men on the TV and so forth, says Penny. “It’s not that we’re against lesbians or anything like that, but we’re gearing towards men.

"Gay bars all used to be like that,” Penny notes, adding that the new space will resemble a Las Vegas lounge where conversation and not dance music takes centre stage.

It’s a business venture that brings Penny out of retirement.

In February 2007 he sold Prism, the only gay bar in Victoria, to long-time customers Terry Bex and Attila Bassett on condition that they would keep the space gay.

“They have not lived up to that commitment,” says Penny who feels that Prism, which was renamed Paparazzi after extensive renovations in 2008, caters more to a “mixed crowd” leaving a vacuum for a dedicated queer space.

Bex maintains that his club is still a gay bar.

“We welcome everybody at the nightclub but it is still advertised as Victoria’s only gay bar,” Bex says. “We’ve never stopped anything. We still have drag shows, we still sponsor Victoria Pride, and we still host the Mr and Mrs Gay Vancouver Island pageant.”

For his part, Bex questions how Penny will keep the Copper Club focused on gay men without excluding others.

“You can’t refuse admission to anyone on sexuality,” says Bex.

Penny maintains he won’t exclude anybody.

“We’re not going to refuse entry. We’re marketing to gay men. It’s as simple as that,” he says.

This is welcome news to Barrie Chamberlin, president of Prime Timers Victoria, a group for gay and bisexual men over 40.

“I know that in our Prime Timers group if we’re together the language and jokes and stories are not something you’d get in a mixed crowd,” he says. “It’s more circumspect than the younger group. We might, for example, tease someone for going for a walk in the park. It’s not the kind of thing you’d do in a mixed establishment.”

Chamberlin is confident the Copper Club will be well received in the community.

“There is a need for another bar in town. We only have the Paparazzi which is in the basement.

“I like to be above ground and look outside, go for a drink on a Sunday or Saturday afternoon and you can see sunshine if there happens to be sunshine that day,” he says.

Retired business owner Jim Kirk says Paparazzi’s nightclub setting with its loud music makes conversation virtually impossible.

“You can’t talk, you can’t hear yourself,” he says, “so then you have to ask, who has the money to drink?

“I’m sure Gary Penny’s bar will appeal to a broader age group,” he adds.

Bex points out that Paparazzi is not just a dance bar.

“We just extended our hours on weekdays,” he says. “We’re open at 1 pm, and we have martini and lounge music where people enjoy afternoon drinks. We have full lottery and Keno at the club pool as well as pool tables. We have quite a few daily customers."

He says Paparazzi focuses on dance music after 10 pm.

Meanwhile, Penny’s Copper Club will have some competition as friend and former employee Terry Jacques is opening his own bar, The Ledge, at the same time.

The Ledge, named for its proximity to the Legislative Assembly, is located on the mezzanine level of the Bedford Regency Hotel.

Jacques describes The Ledge as “a little restaurant-y” without a restaurant atmosphere.

“There was no gay-specific venue to eat, have a few drinks, and shoot a few games of pool, just a night club,” says Jacques who worked at Paparazzi and its previous incarnations for seven years under three different owners, including Penny and Bex.

Jacques will be co-manage The Ledge with Garrick Head manager Jay Nowak.

While he is clear that this will be a gay bar, Jacques hopes The Ledge will appeal to a wide demographic.

“I’m not going to cater to a straight crowd but I’m not going to turn them away at the door,” he says. “It’s certainly a gay venue.”

Kirk is confident that The Ledge will be a success.

“A new bar is an excellent idea,” he says. “The new Ledge will have full window views and food service.

“That’s a gay bar that’s going to do well.”

The Copper Club, 1900 Douglas St, Victoria.

The Ledge, 1140 Government St, Victoria.

Paparazzi Nightclub, 642 Johnson St, Victoria.



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Sounds boring...
It looks like a really boring place that will only be popular for old guys if that. These old dinosaurs should get with the times and out of their bygone era of big city gay men only interacting with other gay men. Mixed crowds are the norm and are profitable. It's what almost all of the gay bars in Edmonton have been like forever. Ventures like this almost always fail simply because it's the younger mixed crowd that has the most money to spend the old guys these day are at home with their husbands or families these days.
Small town gay man, Edmonton Alberta
02/09/10 4:16 PM EST
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Absolutely right
Completely agreed with you, STGM. This venture is going to fail precisely because, no matter how they want to spin it, they are practising reverse discrimination against straight people (specifically allies of the LGBT community). There will be a lasting perception with this bar from the start that it is not welcoming of anyone other than a gay or bi man over 30. If an establishment is "catering" to "mature" gay/bi men, it's no better than a gentleman's club mixed with a bathhouse. Women won't be comfortable, younger gay men won't be comfortable, and their allies won't go anywhere near it. Considering the gay community in Victoria is small and tight-knit compared to other Canadian cities, I am personally not going to be surprised if it's just a group of 50 or so "mature" men patronising this bar that in Victoria terms is in the middle of nowhere. Not only that, all of them will keep going to Paparazzi and the Ledge as well as this Copper Club. As a business model, that's not going to work, especially when there is another gay-oriented lounge opening in the heart of downtown that is not being gender-exclusive. Let them have their club (and obviously I don't wish failure on them), but I hope they aren't surprised *when* it fails because they aren't being patronised by younger gay men, lesbians, trans men/women, allies of the LGBT community and other straight people that are comfortable with being in such a space. It's up to them to prove everyone wrong if they want the business to survive.
Tim, Victoria BC
02/09/10 8:07 PM EST
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Good . A real gay bar
I will check it out on my next trip over to Victoria. Oh ..and the previous posters that claim it will fail because it keeps out the fish and twinks...WRONG. It's gay men over forty with the cash these days, not you drug addled brain dead chicken meat and your fat fag hags. Stick to Celebrities where you can pretend you're worth more than my morning turd.
ron, Vancouver Bc
02/09/10 11:49 PM EST
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BabyBoomers
I think you're right on the money Gary. The baby boomers becoming the largest group in North America. We have lots of money to spend, and now we will have a place to meet, eat & have a few drinks. And if it's a fun place to go, everyone will want to be their ... Good Luck
Rick A., Nanaimo BC
02/10/10 12:07 AM EST
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amused
I read the first two posts with some amusement . You should be more respectful of older gay men, they struggled in the 60 s and 70 s so you can have the rights you now enjoy and youth is not your eternal gift, you'll be older very quickly !! As for money most of the guys under 35 that I see because of the tight economy have no money at all . We of the older group have done well in our day thank god and now can enjoy spendimng our time enjoying the fruits of our labour . I have been the the bar and can tell you that EVERYONE is welcome but the bar is more directed to an older crowd and there is not a thing wrong with that . We are loyal have money and time to spend it. So if you think it not worth it come on over I'll drink your little baby ass under the table!!! OOPs forgot you might not be able to go to your part time job at macdonalds if I do that ..unless mommy gets you up that is
doug, comox b.c.
02/10/10 1:35 AM EST
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Well, that was eloquent.
Thanks for blowing any rationality out of the water with your responses, guys. I'm not a drug addict or a boy whore. I'm a university-educated man that doesn't need to prove myself to you, especially not in the face of your bitterness and stereotyping. That you couldn't come up with a proper response to my argument that the business model is bad and that the bar should work harder to make everyone feel welcome, and, instead, choosing to launch attacks at me and assume I take drugs and don't do anything with my life, is laughable and outright rude. For someone preaching that we young brats should "respect" you, you'd do well to take a bit of your own medicine. It's a two-way street. As for Doug, I'm sorry but who are you to assume I didn't (and still don't) have to struggle the same way you did? Who are you to assume that LGBT youth don't have it just as hard as you did? Who are you to say that we don't appreciate having the right to love and be with whomever we choose? Again, check those unfounded stereotypes at the door. I'm speaking from a position of experience, knowing the gay community in Victoria (and how it works) quite well. For the record, you've missed the point entirely. It has nothing to do with respecting older gay men - business is business and this particular model of business is poorly thought out. This bar, operating the way it is, is going to need a lot of customers of the type of people it is attracting to survive. I wish both new ventures well but when it comes to a business point of view, it's only natural to expect the one with the narrower customer base is going to go under. You have both apparently lived long enough, and therefore should know quite well that stereotypes don't exactly foster healthy discussion. You both would be well advised to choose your words more carefully next time instead of jumping off the deep end and making assumptions. Smarten up.
Tim, Victoria BC
02/10/10 2:57 AM EST
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Dear, Mr. Penny
Your establishment's scheme is utterly insensitive and rude! I am completely offended! Your entire conception is absolutely sexist and indicates ageism. Yes, you have stated that no-one will be denied entry into your bar. However i think it is absurd for you to declare That you "would prefer mature Gay male clientele". What is then ensuing? that you might then 'prefer mature Gay male clientele who are all white?'. Maybe then we can also encourage a bar wholly for young lesbians. Even perhaps one particularly exclusive for the transgendered or transvestite? Obviously anyone can see the irony and ridiculousness of these statements. I applaud Mr.Terry Jacques for ignoring the demarcation of which Mr.Penny has crossed. Mr.Jacques genuinely has respect for human rights, dignity and liberty. Young or old, gay or straight, man or woman.It is time we all stood together and recognized that none of us are free until all of us are free. We do not live in the past any longer Mr. Penny.
Lynn, Victoria BC
02/10/10 7:34 AM EST
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missed the point again
Read your rebuttal very carefully Tim and you seem to miss the point I was trying to make . I don't assume you don't have to struggle, in fact the reason I said "thank God " is because with the economy we have now it is much harder to find good steady jobs then in my day . As for the debate at hand NOBODY has said that all types of people are not welcome .lot of young people like to have a quiet place to go too. Also on the point of my remark about respect if you read the comments (not yours) the writer refers to us as fossils or some such . that is really stereotyping and condesending. There should be I hope a choice for everyone so that all ages can mingle and socalize . We are a minority already don't try to fractionalize us even more . Go to the bar you like and let the chips fall where they may. oh and read ALL the comments before you reply Tim some of my remarks where aimed at the other person NOT YOU. Hope to meet and have a drink someday Incidently the average age of people in Victoria is 67 so we have plenty of guys to support the bar and hopefully make it welcome for all . Remember we as customers are always right so bring your friends.I dislike barriers as much if not more then most people We all have a right to enjoy any bar . Customers are customers and I will make a point of patronizing all the bars acording to my mood and head space at that time,you do the same and everyone will prosper
doug, comox b,c,
02/10/10 2:32 PM EST
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look to your own
read Lynn comments and wondered about how a woman who's gender (gay or stright I don't care)has the nerve to talk about sexism and discrimination when about 9 years ago women had a bar on Wharf street that men where not only not welcome at but where not even allowed through the door!!!! Look to your own kiddo if you want the model for the things you deride
doug, comox b.c.
02/10/10 2:43 PM EST
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don't see a problem at all
I don't see the problem with having a bar that caters primarily to gay men, I'm not a big club guy by any means but I used to enjoy going to an all gay pub night at the university I attended, then within a few years more and more straight people started showing up, the pub did great business but it wasn't gay anymore, you couldn't walk up to anyone there anymore and assume they're gay since there were now more "allies" than actual gay men. I really loved it when it was all gay, not so much when it was mixed. I know there are still bars in Toronto for gay men that aren't all mixed, I just don't care for them or the music they play, also I'm getting older myself and don't enjoy going out on a Friday night like I used to, but this bar being proposed in Victoria sounds like the sort of place I would like. I think they'll do quite well and I wish them good luck!
Rich, Toronto Ontario
02/10/10 3:14 PM EST
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horrified...
Dear readers, The Paparazzi Nightclub will be commenting on all of the articles written. We are waiting for things to evolved...stay tunned. We love you all, as always your Paparazzi family!!!
Paparazzi Nightclub, Victoria BC
02/10/10 5:15 PM EST
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More choice!
I like the new locations for the two bars. Paul's Motor Inn has more parking while still being close to town and it is upstairs. I used to go the bar when Gary ran it and it was run well. No cover and it had a great mixed crowd, which I liked. I think he deserves a chance. So what if he plans to have male dancers. I think they would be welcome by young and old. Give most young guys a chance and it's off to Vancouver to experience that first hand. I don't mind if a bar caters to men or women as long as both are welcome. Best of luck to all three bars.
Roy, Victoria BC
02/10/10 5:23 PM EST
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Victoria
I was kissing my boyfriend at PRISM once, and a man of a certain age told me to go home if I wanted to do that. My impression of Victoria is that it is very repressed and gossipy. Yes that's what the men of a certain age do, they gossip about who they saw at the park. I hope things change for the better with the new bars and can accommodate the not-so-hung-up younger folk.
Stephen Quatrefoil, Dorval Quebec
02/10/10 8:18 PM EST
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Get with the times....
Ok, first of all, I understand the gay movement in Victoria and around the world....Pride is not just about being proud to be gay, but also proud to be individuals and be able to gather in an environment that is open to the gay community as well as straight, bi, and transgender....We have come a very long way to what was once known unsuitable to society..the reason for there being gay clubs or secret places to enjoy each others company was because we as gay men or woman, bi and transgender, had to hid themselves...everyone has there own opinion on this matter but I believe that we have come out from the gravel into a beautiful new paved way...in my opinion I would like to be in an environment that accepts everyone..I love a night club where anyone and everyone can meet... Everyone has been excluded or rejected in one way or another...I wouldn't want to be at a place that would be unhappy to have me and my business/money...Get with the times...this is not old time Rome lol!
Amanda, Victoria British Columbia
02/11/10 3:36 PM EST
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Get with the times
Hey everyone....As you may know I have been involved in the gay community and used to work for Paparazzi nightclub, I used a different name on my last comment because I a sick and tired of people gossiping on an on about how Paparazzi has become a mixed bar, so what? should we start excluding people? Like people have been excluded in the past or should we go to a place where averyone and anyone is accepted....this is the gay bar in town...although it is open to all types of people...I have had a lot happen in the past few years and have learnt a lot working there.. yes,I have had personal and private things going on and the word travels fast so most people know what I am talking about, I have come to know Terry, Attila, and Helina well...they have good hearts..they all care so much for the gay and lesbian community as well as the , Bi-sexual, and trans, straight, each place has their ups and downs. I understand the gay movement in Victoria and around the world....Pride is not just about being proud to be gay, but also proud to be individuals and be able to gather in an environment that is open to the gay community as well as straight, bi, and transgender....We have come a very long way to what was once known unsuitable to society..the reason for there being gay clubs or secret places to enjoy each others company was because we as gay men or woman, bi and transgender, had to hid themselves...everyone has there own opinion on this matter but I believe that we have come out from the gravel into a beautiful new paved way...in my opinion I would like to be in an environment that accepts everyone..I love a night club where anyone and everyone can meet... Everyone has been excluded or rejected in one way or another...I wouldn't want to be at a place that would be unhappy to have me and my business/money...Get with the times...this is not old time Rome lol! I love the gay community and have made tons of great friends that I wouln't give up for anything...
Holly Graham, Victoria British Columbia
02/11/10 4:20 PM EST
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It's about time...
I applaud, whole heartedly, Mr. Penny and Mr. Jacques. I want not to slander anyone - but this need be known - WE NEED MORE SAFE SPACES - spaces where, if you are queer, it's ok. where if you love men, it's ok. where if you dont fit in at all, it's ok. and it's about damn time we have MORE THAN ONE! yay! *applauds* now there's a whole FOUR safe QUEER oriented spaces on the island!! We, as grown ups, COULD count our royal blessings and be greatful for what we have for a change - instead of sh*tting on someone elses idea of what they want to have in life!! If you can make yourself happy and someone else happy, Why piss in someone's cheerios?! COME ON ALREADY.
Alex Carroll, Victoria BC
02/11/10 4:46 PM EST
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wait!!
And i must add, im speaking of only 19+ venues/establishments. Let me not forget to mention the COUNTLESS forever forgotten hardworking Queer Youth Groups and GSA's and and and..the SICPC... and and etc etc etc...
Alex Carroll, Victoria BC
02/11/10 4:50 PM EST
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Facts are facts
I do agree we need not piss on peoples parade and that it is up to the people where they feel comfortable...I am not taking sides or trying to please anyone..I have my own mind...the article speaks for itself...like I said everyone should feel comfortable with where they choose to go...but from what I saw in the article....someone was putting down someones business and it was not Paparazzi...I don't care where the people go..but I do stand for truth and I see a bit of bitterness coming from Mr.Penny... The facts are there....but good for him for trying..
Holly Graham, Victoria British Columbia
02/11/10 6:47 PM EST
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Huh,..
Honestly,..I think that it's a great idea to have more gay oriented establishments! Especially safe places for people to go,..Let's not be blind, There are still mass amounts of prejudice and 'gay-bashing' in Victoria,..We all know this,.We also all know people who are uncomfortable with LGBT,..Unfortunately that's something you'll never be able to escape,..Just like racism,.. So having a safe, fun, comfortable environment to go is crucial for the 'tight knit' community that is spoken of in previous posts. Although, unfortunately from what I read, even though they aren't openly saying they'll reject people who aren't gay men,..I feel as if there would be an unwelcome air about it if I were to go,..Which saddens me a bit,..I rather enjoy going to a mixed establishment. I'm straight, and have quite a few gay friends and support LGBT rights to the fullest extent, but yet it would be frowned upon if I were to go to either establishment? And if not so much frowned upon, but I wouldn't feel welcome because of the demographic it's targeting? What if this place makes the best martini in town? Or has an amazing spinach dip? My money, support, and friendship should be just as valued as the next persons,..Whether or not they're LGBT,.. With the way it was worded in the article, i feel as if the only people that would be welcome is older gay men,..Which I know a few of, and have invited me to go in the coming weeks,..I'm just unsure of the reception I'll get being a straight woman/gay supporter/patron.
Jessica, Victoria BC
02/11/10 8:08 PM EST
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room for everyone
Victoria is a fickle little place, everyone has there favorite watering holes and they usually stick to them, or they don't go out at all because nothing appeals. I think its fantastic that Victoria has three places to pick from. Each catering the public a little differently. Choice in this community is something that has been lacking for many years, and I believe that everyone can benefit from this. Its going to encourage the gay community to get out more and mingle and feel more like they can choose how they want to spend there evening, whether that be in the company of men, or in a pub or in a dance club. Personally I hated feeling like I had only one place to go. I also feel that this opens up a safety net for those who are coming out, sometimes its hard to fit into a nightclub scene, sometimes its easier to come out in a nightclub, the point is everyone now has choice. I think all the establishments have the ability to do well, having all decided to cater to a different gay market, and I say congrats to all. I look forward to seeing what you all have to offer, and bringing my friends with me!
Tina, victoria bc
02/12/10 2:10 PM EST
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is it really any different?
I'm wondering to those who say that the copper club is a old school way of keeping things separated. I'm wondering if its any different than when women put on a dance that is geared towards women. So the copper club picked a demographic of people to market to, and the Ledge picked a group, and the nightclub also has there own group. Its this constant anger and finger pointing that makes everyone feel uncomfortable in the first place. I'm glad that I know what the copper club is gearing to so that I don't feel I have to go there. I know in advance that I would not be comfortable there. Good..great. I also know that I'm not always in the mood for a nightclub, so now I know I don't have to go there if I don't want to. Really wants wrong with just being accepting of how another business wants to operate. It will survive or fail on its own accorde, who are we to judge.
Tina, victoria bc
02/13/10 12:55 AM EST
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Victoria
I don't live in Victoria, but I would visit the new bars on my next visit. I've always thought Victoria had very limited gay "nightlife" for an area with over 300,000 people. You do get lots of tourists in Victoria, and you know, not all of them are straight... Regarding the comments on "mixed bars", I think these types of establishments work for LGBT people if the bars make it understood they welcome LGBT people and the clientele is already mostly gay (for example one bar in Vancouver has big rainbow flags inside the bar as well as gay newspapers, etc.;its clientele is mixed though). Otherwise, what's preventing these "mixed" bars from becoming "straight" bars (and there are so many "straight" bars to chose from). Do "gay nights" advertised sometimes in straight bars really work? I don't think they do (at least in Vancouver), because they don't seem to last long. I think English Canada is still kind of uptight, and there are so many straight people who are just not that comfortable with openly gay people.
John, Vancouver BC
02/14/10 1:41 AM EST
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Where are the lesbians?
I am thrilled to see more gay spaces (especially non-nightclub gay spaces) opening up in Victoria. I will definately be checking these out! While I do appreciate the desire for gay men to have a space of their own, I'm a little saddened to see that one of the newcomers is marketing exclusively to men. Go to Paparazzi any night of the week, and you might think it also caters to gay men... because the lesbians are barely/rarely there. Aside from the events a few enterprising women are organizing in their own spaces, there doesn't appear to be any space just for Lesbians in Victoria. So, for now, we can chock this up as just one more space where lesbians will NOT be coming.
Lesbian, Victoria BC
02/16/10 5:12 PM EST
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Uh honey
I don't know where YOU'VE been going but there are plenty of lesbians at Paparazzi. You can't miss them - they're the drunken 100 or so by the DJ booth being obnoxious, dancing on/over other people and clapping in a big circle. (In all seriousness, I agree with your comment)
Lotsofdykes, Victoria BC
02/17/10 1:32 AM EST
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Gay Friendly Space
I think most negative feedback about The Ledge being specific towards gay-male clientele will quickly be retracted seeing as though both men and women have been enjoying the space equally. I think this establishment is going to be great for the GLBT community, regardless of gender. I've been there a couple of times now and the space is enjoyed freely and comfortably among men and women. I'm not trying to bash Paparazzi but on weekends most noticeably, it's often now filled with straight people (and I've seen quite a few that treat the gay partons with little to no respect.) I'm hoping The Ledge will stay a gay-friendly place where those can go to simply be respected by those around them and able to have a good time. And on a side note, maybe those Obnoxious Lesbians will keep their clapping minimal in a more relaxed atmosphere.
ObnoxiousLesbian, Victoria BC
02/26/10 1:37 AM EST
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violence in "the Pap"
I love that there are people out there trying very hard to create a safe place for the GLBT community to meet, hangout, laugh etc... The reality is that most bars may be safe for two girls to go and dance together, but our society still views to men doing that as negative. It puts us In danger of violence. When the Signs and Pride Flags at PRISM came down and the "everyone" vibe started flying they should have either posted another bouncer downstairs, or put up a sign on the door saying that it is a gay and lesbian friendly establishment. Having one very ancient bouncer at the top of the stairs isnt going to do anyone getting gay bashed by some dumb plan B idiot any good. I have PERSONALLY witnessed a number of times some drunk young collage boy looks around and realizes where he has stumbled into. There have been more than a few incidents of that resulting in violence. That is a dangerous game that bar is playing and everyone is sorry AFTER someone gets hurt. I am pleased that both these new bars are at least flying the flag, and if Gary wants to make his a gay-male centered bar, good for him. I wish him the best of luck.
younggay, Victoria BC
02/26/10 1:50 AM EST
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not true
first of all we are called paparazzi get it right,violence well bullshit,rarely does that occur,but when u get a group togeather there is bound 2 be a disagreement straight or gay,by the way how are you suppose 2 stop violence amongst everyone unless we are exposed 2 one another and get 2 know each other meaning straight and gay,if you have been 2 the paparazzi lately you would know there are 2 security guards,get the facts straight before u make accusations that truely hold no merit,also this is attila directing this 2 young gay hmmm not even a name...
attila, victoria bc
03/06/10 6:21 AM EST
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Rediculous...
Holly Shit!!! This is unbelievable...I am the CEO of the company & how long have you been coming 2 the PAPARAZZI/Prism??? Well, let's remember this club was bought to save a sadly deteriorating venue for the community!!! Shames on you...Never have I witness a beating/violence attack in or out of the club!!! Our associate is always on top of any signs of a fight...so get it straight!!! contiued...
Helina, Victoria BC
03/06/10 3:56 PM EST
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rediculous continued...
As for the rainbow flag, the community didn’t want to have it on the awning & now you do! What’s with you? Stop telling us how to run this business…Do you have a business? Sounds like you want to stay in the dark ages. How sad. Continued...
Helina, Victoria BC
03/06/10 4:03 PM EST
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REDICULOUS continued...
Furthermore, never since we have owned the club, have we ever seen any violence @ our club…as for the other club you mentioned, they try to do their best to control their crowd situation… it is well know that Paparazzi is a gay establishment, straight friendly!!!! Slanderous comments are not warranted...by the way, there are 2 security guards on duty...I am sick of this crap, why don't you grow some balls!!! Where has the support? We support Pride Society every year...Just because there are 2 new venues, why is it that the PAPARAZZI is always the target of bullshit??? It happens every time! Jealousy is such a ugly thing!!!Would you like the club to look the way it was before? LOL...Be sure to check out our website for before & after photos...Coming Soon! www.paparazzinightclub.com
Helina, Victoria BC
03/06/10 4:16 PM EST
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Violence in "The Pap"
How can flying the gay Flag prevent violence. It seems neither of the 2 new clubs even have any licienced security staff at thier doors, so where is there any one to help if it's needed. The Paparazzi Night club is well known for it's safe and violence free envirement. Just where this unknown Young gay victorian saw Violence needs a second look, but it was not at the Paparazzi. I question how a Flag will prevent Violence???? and act as a Licienced Security staff is beyond me.???
TERRY, Victoria b.c.
03/12/10 12:52 AM EST
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New is nice
I have to say I'm happy to see there are two more safe places for the gay community in Victoria now,I did live there and finally had the chance to come back to the island check both bars out and I like what I saw.
Jackson, Vancouver B.C.
03/14/10 5:43 PM EST
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Grow up people !
Question, over the decades, how many lesbian bars made gay guys feel welcome ? Answer, not very bloody many. I 100 percent applaud the opening of a gay bar that caters to older gay men. As a few of the 'smarter' comments have pointed out, if it wasn't for many of these 'older' gay men, the gay movement would still be in the dark ages. And finally, a memo to guys (and woman for that matter) that are under 35, a time will come (believe it or not) when you are considered 'old' by guys under your age. Remember that the next time you turn your little noses up at someone older than you are. And, take a minute to ask yourself how many years of service and fighting the fight for rights, etc have you put into the gay scene at this point in your life. As for the bar in Victoria, I'm willing to bet a few of my pay cheques that they would never turn anyone away at the door. I feel sure about that statement, because for decades, gay bars have almost never turned anyone away.
Jeff Taylor, Toronto Ontario
03/15/10 12:43 AM EST
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Umm...
Does anyone else feel (as a Paparazzi customer) offended that the owners or staff of paparazzi are yelling at the community? How unprofessional.
concerned, victoria bc
03/16/10 5:04 AM EST
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Umm
Umm, named only as concerned, Seems to have missed the whole point of this article and it's comments. It seems alot of point's were one sided and truly false. The staff and management at the Paparazzi are truly very polite and have been a real part of the Victoria comunity and have always been professional. Show your pride and sign your comments with your real name and be a true part of the community. Lets all be professional and fare. Regards, Terry , Victoria B.C.
terry, victoria b.c.
03/17/10 2:18 AM EST
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Enough is enough
After reading some of the latest comments I have to say I'm disappointed in how everyone is acting towards this,the mudslinging needs to stop its dividing an already small gay community.
Peter, Vancouver B.C.
03/18/10 5:00 PM EST
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Build bridges?
One of the reasons I've always preferred a small town gay-bar experience to larger cities is because you don't get that segregation effect of having lots of little niche bars, where people can hide away from anything, or anyone that isn;t directly up there alley. I'm a bit preppy, yuppie-looking and a little shy. And yet, I love the opportunity presented by a aplce where I can meet lesbians, bears, older men, younger men, everything. In my opinion it encourages people to get to know different perspectives, and ideas. I know a lot of young men in VAncouver who cringe at the thought of going to a bar filled with older men, or "straights". Why? Because from the time they were 19, they've only hung out with like-aged, and like-minded people. What's so scary about all sharing space?
Michael Adams, Victoria BC
03/18/10 6:47 PM EST
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We are family!
.... Wow! Okay I know I'm going to get it here but really, ask if I care. It is absolutely astounding the amount of BS coming out on this article! So what if the Boys have a bar! So what if Paparazzi is ' a dark hole nobody wants to be seen at ' .And so what if the Grrls used to have an exclusive ' Womyn's only bar '! Have we learned nothing? I don't see gender segregation at Pride events? It isn't a case of Boys on one side of the street and Grrls on the other! Grow -up children! WE ARE ALL FAMILY! Sometimes we don't like to play together but that is no need for name-calling and nastiness. Don't you get enough of that from the red -necked straight society? Shame on all of you who can't play nice with your Brothers and Sisters , whatever their real gender. Personally , why would I go to a Men's club? As a strong out Lesbian , knowing that it is a Men's club is enough for me to stay away. There are still two other gay clubs that will get my business. Sometimes I like the darkness and sometimes I like to people watch so I think both the alternatives are good. As for all this cattiness ... really irrelevant. Love and light.
Ixchel, Victoria BC
03/30/10 11:48 AM EST
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