Gay immigrants rejected by gays and straights
IMMIGRATION CONFERENCE / 'People felt rejected by the mainstream community and the mainstream Anglo white gay community'
Jeremy Hainsworth / Vancouver / Monday, March 28, 2011
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Racist reactions from the "mainstream" gay community in the wake of recent gaybashings may be forcing immigrant gays and lesbians deeper into the closet, says a University of BC professor.

"I think the mainstream gay community at large has a tendency to blame the South Asian community [for gaybashings] and say 'send them back,'" Dr Brian O'Neill of the UBC School of Social Work told the Diversity Within Diversity session at the 2011 National Metropolis Conference on immigration March 25.

"It's easy to fall into that trap and I think people do," he says, adding such stereotyping can have a negative effect on gay people who have just arrived in Canada and are struggling to adjust and fit in.

"People felt rejected by the mainstream community and the mainstream Anglo white gay community," O'Neill says of some findings from a recent study on immigrant gays in smaller BC communities. "You face double discrimination."

Some observers posted racist comments on Xtra's website after assault charges were laid against Parminder Singh Peter Bassi and Ravinder Robbie Bassi in connection with last year’s alleged attack on David Holtzman and Peter Regier after a nearby Ultimate Fighting Championship event.

"Fucking ugly fat-faced brown immigrants in their stupid glitter shirts. Hope these two animals get gang raped by HIV positive cell mates then DEPORTED," one wrote.

Similar comments appeared when charges were upgraded against Michael Kandola, who would later be convicted for attacking Jordan Smith, his actions designated a hate crime.

"I call for a total boycott of Indo Candian (sic) men from bathhouses, parks, bathrooms and such. If they going to use the gay community its (sic) not okay to bash us after you get your rocks off," someone posted in 2008. "I call for a all out boycott of Indo Candian (sic) men at all gay sex places, they know who they are lets (sic) not be fooled they use the services of gay men I have seen many at a few bathhouses and down a few trails, they know who they are, but not anymore."

This rejection may lead some immigrant queers to feel isolated and behave recklessly. "Homophobia and this closeted lifestyle and the discrimination in the community is leading to health issues," O'Neill says.

Social services agencies can help, he suggests. "There really needs to be an orientation to rights for gay and lesbian newcomers.”

However, he adds, social services providers need to be culturally respectful and provide such information discreetly where needed. And there needs to be more education in ethnic communities on sexuality issues, he adds.

"Local gay and lesbian organizations need to do systemic outreach," he says.

While Canada may have made great strides in rights for gay people on a legal or philosophical level, it is still filtering down to the level of social services. "Certainly, the real issue we're at in the social services is actually implementing some of these ideas," O'Neill says.




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Reader Comments


 
Dear Dr. Brain O'Neill
It's not just the gays that want them deported. EVERYONE, and I mean EVERYONE i have spoken with over the years want criminals deported no matter what race, age, sexual preference or $$ in the bank. Too bad for everyone else, SHIP THEM OUT! OUT OUT OUT! GET THE HELL OUT OF OUR COUNTRY!
Marc, Vancouver BC
03/28/11 8:32 PM EST
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Scam
I know of a couple gay guys that are totally using the system in order to become Canadian citizens. Fake marriages, drug dealing, anything to stay in the country. They don't hide it too much either. What about those guys? Is there a reporting service?
K. Haines, Vancouver BC
03/29/11 3:50 PM EST
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hate to rain on your parade...
At the risk of stating the obvious, there are two things that often get lost in this mix. First, just because someone "looks" like an immigrant, doesn't mean that they are one. It's 2011, so just about any "immigrant-looking" person could easily be at least second generation Canadian. Second, it seems that many people, regardless of orientation, tend to scapegoat based on the ethnic origins of the perpetrator. The fact is, if you live in BC and aren't First Nations, you (and I) are either immigrants or the decendents of them. In BC, we live in unceded territory. So...unless you're prepared to move "out out out" of here and back to wherever you (or your predecessors) come from, think first before making generalizations and casting stones. Remember that whole "do unto others as you'd have them do unto you" thing? It works best if everyone actually tries to do it.
matthew, vancouver bc
03/29/11 4:09 PM EST
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Love Indo
I love Indo Canadian men in bathhouses...so much fun. What I don't like about the bathhouses in Vancouver is the hustlers, drugs, drug overdoses, rude staff, barebacking and cold showers. lol
BenHaines, Vancouver British Columbia
03/30/11 6:29 PM EST
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