Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Former ED sends a wake-up call to Pride Toronto

Pride Toronto's former executive director Fatima Amarshi urges the organization's current leadership to "wake up" and reverse the ban on "Israeli apartheid."


Amarshi in the documentary Beyond Gay: The Politics of Pride 

Read Amarshi's open letter to the Pride Toronto board:

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Pride Toronto, It’s Time to Wake Up!

An Open Letter from the former Executive Director.

Two weeks ago, I watched footage of Pride’s leadership flanked by police and enclosed by a fence, tell our community that its most basic right to free-expression would no longer be guaranteed.  Like many of the other former staff and volunteers who have dedicated so much of themselves to the build the organization that you have inherited, I was shocked and heartbroken by the decision.  But as vehemently as I disagreed with it, as the former Executive Director, I understood what an immensely difficult position Pride was in, and was sympathetic to the toll that this was taking on you.  I also remembered an organization that struggled hard to keep itself rooted in the community and was both willing and capable of self-reflection, so there was hope that you would find a way to rectify this.
 
Many of you that still sit on Pride’s Board and committees are respected colleagues who have worked with me to re-politicize Pride and expand our community’s biggest platform for self-expression. Together, we put politics front and center into the event with our international human rights program, paid tribute to the fearless and extraordinary heroes still fighting religious bigotry, rights of sex workers, trans rights, etc…showcased more queer art in more genres and more places than ever before, made the Dyke March trans inclusive, gave queer families a truly great family pride celebration, launched new community stages, worked on dis/ability access, and most importantly, unanimously rejected the same voices that called on us to ban QuAIA well before this year.  So until this week I sincerely believed that once the community voiced their concerns, you would listen, understand, and realize your mistake.
 
But watching you consistently turn a deaf ear to the community over the last few weeks, and whip yourselves into such an impenetrable siege mentality that you chose to lock your doors and call the police to protect your property when the community came calling on Monday, is not just heartbreaking, it is appalling!   To effectively bar the likes of Gareth Henry, Rachel Epstein, Tim McCaskell, your own choices of ILGA, Dr. Li and Jane Farrow for honours this year, from participating in Pride for standing up for the very principle that led to your founding, and then dismiss it in a press release as “regrettable”, is not only short-sighted, it’s cowardly.
 
It is the very people that you should be celebrating and calling on for support -- people who withstood arrests, violence, governments and a public that denied them far more than permits over the last thirty years -- that you are barring from your doors with police officers.  These are the very people that have so fundamentally changed the legal, cultural and political landscape in this country for queers, that today, on your 30th anniversary, you have the luxury of facing only permitting and noisy election year saber-rattling as your greatest challenges.
 
Pride the movement and the organization quite literally grew out of the act of “parading” our queerness long before this became anyone’s idea of celebration.  It was precisely by exercising our right to express our love, lives and sexuality, in spite of how uncomfortable it made anyone, that we were able to demand justice and equality for ourselves.  We learnt early on that in order for our right to free expression to stand, we had to stand behind it as a fundamental and unequivocal principle.  And that requires valuing diverse voices and even vehement disagreements within our community.  So to suggest that censoring language doesn’t negate our history or infringe on the principle of free speech, is disingenuous and the worst kind of self-rationalizing.
 
So Pride Toronto, I say to you now: it’s time to wake up and turn to the community, instead of against them! As of yet, you have only managed to justify your decision as some sort of pre-emptive protection against a series of “ifs” and “maybes” and have done nothing to prove that your demise is really inevitable or imminent.  This community has a legion of lawyers, fundraisers, organizers and a powerful voting bloc that can still work with you to fight for whatever you need, so let them.  And for those of you that are too tired, step aside with our gratitude for shouldering the burden so far, and let those in the community that have the capacity and ability, fight the rest of the battle for you. 
 
As you go into your 30th Anniversary, I challenge you to take a long hard look at your own mission statement and remember exactly what it is that you are supposed to be celebrating and the covenant you made with your community: “Pride Toronto exists to celebrate the history, courage, diversity and future of Toronto’s LGBTTIQQ2SA communities".  I can think of no better way for you to truly honour and celebrate the history and courage of our community than to emulate it by facing up to your own mistake and reversing this decision.
 
 
Sincerely,
Fatima Amarshi
Former Executive Director of Pride Toronto (2005 – 2008)

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Wednesday, June 9, 2010 3:50 PM

BRAVO! This is what leadership looks like! Fatima is missed by the community.

Queer ca


Wednesday, June 9, 2010 3:03 PM

very well stated.
It is high time that we take our Gay/lesbian/Bi/Transgendered Pride back.
Remember it is our Pride not governments, sponsors or any one else.
We have marched with out permits before and much smaller events but it was all inclusive and it was ours.

Dennis ca


Wednesday, June 9, 2010 4:40 PM

Some honest and heartfelt words from someone that understands the history of Pride Toronto. Well said!!! Thank you Fatima.

JG ca


Wednesday, June 9, 2010 4:09 PM

Fatima.. what a powerful statement and you said it just right!!! Standing ovation from me.. all the way over here in Vancouver! YES!!

Debbie ca


Wednesday, June 9, 2010 5:06 PM

Thank you Fatima.....very well stated..

I would like to invite you to our next meeting....we hope it will happen at 519 on June 17th at 7pm.....we would like to hear from you and have you join us in our fight to take back our pride....

There are so many thought we would like to get your views on as the community misses you dearly....

DJ ca


Wednesday, June 9, 2010 6:44 PM

Fatima, thank you for writing your words all the way from Vancouver! We miss you.

Michael Went ca


Wednesday, June 9, 2010 11:56 PM

Thank you Fatima! Wonderful to have such clear-headed and experienced leadership at this very sad time in the LGBTQ community in Toronto.

AK ca


Thursday, June 10, 2010 9:47 PM

Thank you Fatima! This is a very sad time for our community. We need strong leadership to re-politize Pride as we come together to celebrate 30 years.

Anna ca


Saturday, June 12, 2010 9:35 PM

Every thing I have read and seen on you tube has shown that pride stands for Gay and Lesbian issues. I still haven't seen anything to do with Israeli Politics and having a group promoting hatred for a country and a people at pride is not what pride is about. Having people walking down the street wearing swastikas (I don't care that the swastikas are crossed out)a symbol of hatred, death and destruction not only to the Jews but to Gays and Lesbians and many many others makes for a very scary pride in my opinion. Having a group that is carrying around banners saying Israel should be destroyed is promoting hatred and antisemitism. Is that really the message we want to pass on that we are about promoting hatred, death and destruction to those participating and watching pride. Think about what Pride is about. In everything I have read so far or watched on You tube pride has stood for GAY RIGHTS, LESBIAN RIGHTS, TRANS RIGHTS the DYKE March came about because of the raids on the Gay bath houses which is another QUEER Issue. When they protested African Apartheid I am almost positive the message being passed on was not to hate Africans but a protest to end the repression of the people who were in Apartheid. QUAIA is spreading a message about hate and destruction of a country and well as far as I am concerned that is not what Pride is about. Pride in my opinion means celebrating our lifestyle and who we are as a people United not divided over an issue that has absolutely nothing to do with Pride.

Chek ca


Sunday, June 13, 2010 12:07 AM

Hey you know what with all the screaming and yelling about censorship lets also let the KKK march with us I am sure they also have something to say, what about the Neo Nazi's they too have something to say, let's let all the homophobes march with us as well, what about all the other country's that may hate the fact that we exist. Yes lets open all the doors for the world to hate us once again. Let's all go back in the closet and start the fight all over again because of an issue that doesn't belong in Pride.

Hey we can even tell the city we don't want their support anymore I mean pride is such a corporation now we don't want the police protection that we have so we can go back to having parades where we are being arrested and beaten once again. Yes in your cries against censorship over an issue that has absolutely nothing to do with pride you are overlooking the importance of what pride has come to stand for. Without funding from the city without the city closing off the streets so that we can celebrate in safety, the ttc runs a shuttle service to the Palaise Royal at pride so that people have a place to dance, but we don't really want the city to support us do we want things to go back to the day it wasn't safe to come out of the closet where holding your partner's hand in public ran the risk of being beaten and possibly killed. Is that really what you want. Why aren't we celebrating the fact that in four years from now Toronto will be hosting a pride far times larger than it has ever been or is promoting hatred more important. Why aren't we celebrating the fact that we have been accepted and that the Queer community can expand from Church Street and live almost anywhere in the city now. We can fight harassment and discrimination now. We fought so hard to be accepted, that we can live our lives the way we were meant to, that we can have a pride to be proud of do we really want to destroy that over an issue that doesn't belong in Pride? Think about it.

Chek ca



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